ትላንት ጠዋት while waiting for my friend ፀሐይ እየሞኩ... this cat came and ራቅ ብላ መለቃቀም ጀመረች:: አንድ እግሯ ላይ የተተበተበ ክር ነግር አለ... ታነክሳለች... I can see the swallow leg, it must be painful ብዬ አዘንኩላት. Naturally, my instinct wanted to help her so badly. But when I approached her ትሸሻለች... ሳባብላትም አይገባትም.... ስቀርባት ትርቃለች:: There is nothing I can do about it, I felt sadness about her suffering, I can see the source of the pain, I can untangle her but I can't do anything about it unless she lets me.

The cat thinks my approach is a bigger danger than whatever she is going through.

Then it hits me, that’s how trauma makes you think. That's how your comfort zone makes you think. That's how previous experiences dilute your reality.

I have been there, and I also know some friends who are just like that cat ,You can clearly see what's wrong and how to fix it, but whenever you try to help them, they fly away, they hit you with a tick wall/boundary. Just like that poor cat.

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ትላንት ጠዋት while waiting for my friend ፀሐይ እየሞኩ... this cat came and ራቅ ብላ መለቃቀም ጀመረች:: አንድ እግሯ ላይ የተተበተበ ክር ነግር አለ... ታነክሳለች... I can see the swallow leg, it must be painful ብዬ አዘንኩላት. Naturally, my instinct wanted to help her so badly. But when I approached her ትሸሻለች... ሳባብላትም አይገባትም.... ስቀርባት ትርቃለች:: There is nothing I can do about it, I felt sadness about her suffering, I can see the source of the pain, I can untangle her but I can't do anything about it unless she lets me.

The cat thinks my approach is a bigger danger than whatever she is going through.

Then it hits me, that’s how trauma makes you think. That's how your comfort zone makes you think. That's how previous experiences dilute your reality.

I have been there, and I also know some friends who are just like that cat ,You can clearly see what's wrong and how to fix it, but whenever you try to help them, they fly away, they hit you with a tick wall/boundary. Just like that poor cat.

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175 viewsAmen, Jan 7 at 19:41